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10+ Things to do on a Road Trip with Tweens

By Jen

tips for road trip with tweens title and car with paper map
10 road trip tips with tweens title and map with car

Road tripping took a turn when our kids grew up. We have shared much advice around parenting tweens over the years. We're excited to share these tips for having a fun family road trip with tweens...it can be done and it can be fun.

When I was a kid, summer vacation meant road tripping. Packing my grandparent's Volkswagen camper van and hitting the road. It was very much late 1970s/80s style vacationing. We didn't have iPads, DVD players or any handheld computerized devices. The classic response to "I'm bored" was "look out the window."

I would stare out the window dreaming about what road tripping would be like when I was a parent...things would be different. 

The time has come and now I'm the parent and I'm in charge of my children's road trip experience. Guess what? Things really haven't changed all that much. We don't have the camper van anymore, but I say the exact same thing to my kids when they are bored, "look out the window."

So, as we start planning another epic 10-day road trip to the east coast of Canada this summer, I am preparing for a tech-free (or minimal) road trip with my tweens. It is possible to have a fun family road trip with tweens!

  1. 10+ Things to Do on a Road Trip for Tweens
    1. Plan Together
    2. Be Considerate of Each Other 
    3. Organize the Space
    4. Plenty of Food
    5. Surprise Toy
    6. Musical Selections
    7. Stop the Car
    8. Map it Out
    9. A Little Tech Goes a Long Way
    10. Leave time for downtime
      1. Do you have any tips and tricks for heading out on the road with tweens?

10+ Things to Do on a Road Trip for Tweens

Plan Together

As soon as you know where you are going it is time to involve your tween in the planning process. Have a family vacation planning meeting or meetings. Chat about where you are travelling to and let your kids provide input into the trip - are there places they would like to visit, would they like to go for hikes, would they like to spend time at the beach or would they like to visit a particular tourist spot? You might be surprised by what your tweens know. If your child isn't sure, then head online, or to your local library, and do some research on where you will be vacationing. My eldest is an expert at finding cute bakeries and cafes, so this is her assignment for our road trip.

road map with push pins

Be Considerate of Each Other 

Take your kids, bags full of your stuff, yourself and your spouse and stuff them in a 6' x 4' space - for hours on end...sounds like a nightmare, but it's a road trip. Long road trips require great consideration for each other. Arguments are amplified, but the fun is too. Have a conversation with your tween about what it means to be considerate to each other. Discuss behaviour expectations before you hit the road. Then take a deep breath and know that "be nice to your sister" is going to be your broken record for the duration of the trip.

organized backseat of car

Organize the Space

The back seat of a car can be cramped, hot and stinky. Before heading on your road trip, clean out the backseat. Find ways to keep the backseat organized. Assign each child her own entertainment bag...filled with everything she needs to be entertained on the trip. Stock the back seat with plenty of napkins and a garbage bag, or two. An organized space is a much more comfortable space to spend time in.

Plenty of Food

We learned this lesson on our last road trip, to NYC. Kids (and parents) get hangry...angry due to hunger. The best way to ward off having a hangry tween is to pack snacks and be prepared to stop for more food. Let your tween choose some of the snacks you are taking on the road. Make sure everything is not salt and sugar-based, or you will be dealing with cranky kids of a different kind. We really love having veggies and dip on hand. A small cooler can fit a whole lot of snacks. 

Surprise Toy

This is an old trick from when the kids were younger, but it still works. Purchase a few surprises that you can give your tween along the way. A few ideas are a new journal, a new book, small craft kits, colouring books (the new adult styles) or a Rubix cube. My kids still love collecting LEGO mini-figures - they are a big hit on road trips - even with tweens.

road trip tape

Musical Selections

Let's face it, tweens don't always like their parents' musical selections. Yes, there might be a few bands that cross over, but musical differences can be pretty vast. Let your tween load up his phone (or listening device) with the music he loves...remember road trips with your pile of tapes and a walkman? Don't want your tween to have his headphones on the entire trip? Make road trip playlists for the car and make sure to add your tween's choices to the playlist. Listening to music as a family in the car can actually be a lot of fun...if everyone's interests are taken into consideration. 

There are a lot of great, family-friendly podcasts to listen to. Our last road trip was when we all discovered the awesome play, Hamilton. I'll forever associate that musical with our road trip...that's what road trips are for...making lasting memories.

things to do on a road trip with tweens car on map

Stop the Car

Yes, the point of a road trip is to cover plenty of miles in a single day but, don't forget to stop along the way. Making time for a little outdoor play along the way will help everyone in the car...even the driver. I wrote a post about the many ways you can incorporate a little outdoor play in your road trip...it's not as hard as you might think.

Map it Out

While most drivers now use some sort of GPS system, there is still a lot of use for old-school maps. Before you head out on the road, highlight the route you plan to take on a map or in a map book. Let your tween be in charge of the map. Not only does this help your child answer the "are we there yet" question, but this also allows your child to learn about where you are travelling. There is value in knowing how to properly read a map.

A Little Tech Goes a Long Way

Vacation time is a time when parents want to unplug from work and the online world. However, parents aren't tweens. Tweens want to stay in touch with life back home. When we were kids staying in touch meant we might have made a quick phone call to our friends or popped a postcard in the mail. Times have changed.

Many tweens have social media accounts, they will want to check in on.  Set aside a few minutes a day for tweens to send a quick message to their friends, or share a picture on social media. If you aren't comfortable with "a few minutes a day" then set a schedule that works for you and your tween. While we want our kids to unplug, we need to respect the way they communicate with their friends.

Leave time for downtime

Does anyone really function well when they don't get enough sleep? Sleep is very important for tweens. Their growing bodies need rest...and rest doesn't mean sitting in the back of the car. If everyone has eaten, had plenty to drink and they are still cranky - blame it on being overtired. Sleeping in might mean your day's drive starts a little later, but that drive will be a whole lot more fun.

Tips for a Fun Family Road Trip with Tweens

There are so many other little things you can do to make a road trip fun for everyone. When the kids were toddlers it was all about strategic bathroom breaks and nap times - now that the kids are older they can really learn and be part of the trip. When we announced our east coast road trip destination my eldest daughter excitedly asked "Does this mean we can drive on Confederation Bridge?" Her enthusiasm and knowledge were awesome, road trips bring school books to life.

Do you have any tips and tricks for heading out on the road with tweens?


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Jen Farr is a mother living in Toronto, Canada. She has been sharing her DIY crafts, recipes, activities and parenting advice for over 15 years on her blog Kitchen Counter Chronicle. Jen is the mom of 2 lovely daughters. She believes in the power of taking small steps that can make big impacts on the world.

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